Had something similar crop up with my garden office setup last year — not 3-phase but same ESS weirdness where the system kept hunting between grid and inverter modes for no obvious reason. Drove me absolutely mental.
Few things worth checking if you're running that VM-3P75CT meter:
- CT clamp positioning — even being slightly off-axis killed my readings and sent the ESS into a loop
- ESS minimum SOC settings — if your Pylontech BMS and the Cerbo GX are disagreeing on state of charge, it'll thrash constantly
- Grid code settings — in the UK you want G98/G99 compliance sorted, wrong grid code can cause the MultiPlus to disconnect and reconnect repeatedly
I'd pull the VRM logs first and look at the grid setpoint graph. If it's spiking all over the place rather than sitting flat, it's almost certainly a metering or comms issue rather than the inverters themselves.
Also worth checking your Pylontech firmware — there were some known issues with older US5000 firmware interacting badly with certain Victron firmware versions. Fogstar sell the US5000 here and their support team actually know their stuff if you're stuck.
What firmware are you running on the Cerbo? And are all three MultiPlus-II units on identical firmware? Mismatched firmware across a 3-phase stack is a nightmare waiting to happen.
Anyone else seen this with 3-phase ESS in the UK? Curious whether this is more common than people admit.