Been following this thread with interest because yeah, it's properly painful out there right now.
On the boat I sidestepped most of this nonsense by just going full off-grid from the start — Victron MultiPlus, Fogstar lithium bank, decent solar array on the roof. Never had to deal with a DNO queue in my life. Honestly can't imagine waiting 18+ months just to get connected when you could have a working system up and running in a few weekends.
What I don't get is why more self-builders and rural property owners aren't just... not bothering? I get that it's not always realistic — family homes, planning restrictions, whatever — but the grid connection costs alone in some areas are eye-watering before you factor in the wait.
Spoke to a mate in Shropshire recently who got quoted £34k just for the connection, then told it'd be 2027 before anyone even came out. He's now looking seriously at off-grid. Funny how that works.
The DNOs seem completely overwhelmed and there's no sign of it improving short-term. Anyone here actually had a positive experience recently, or is it grim across the board? Curious whether Scotland is any better than England — seen mixed reports.