Been piecing together a budget 12v system in my Transit and I've been going back and forth on this for weeks. Most people on here seem to go straight for a B2B charger like the Victron Orion or Sterling Pro Charge Ultra, but they're £120–£200+ and that's a big chunk of my total budget. I've got a fairly simple setup — 200Ah of AGM leisure batteries, a 30A split-charge relay I picked up for £18 on Amazon, and a 200W solar panel feeding into an EPever 20A MPPT.
The relay seems to be doing the job on longer drives — I did a 3-hour run last week and the leisure bank went from about 60% up to around 85% by the time I stopped. But I know the relay just connects the batteries together rather than doing a proper 3-stage charge, so I'm probably not getting a full charge from the alternator. With AGMs you ideally want that absorption stage to properly top them off.
The other thing nagging at me is whether the relay is doing my alternator any harm over time, especially in winter when solar is basically useless and I'm relying on driving more heavily. The Transit has a 150A alternator so I'd have thought it was fine, but I've seen some horror stories on forums about killing smart alternators.
Has anyone actually run a relay long-term and been happy with it, or did you end up switching to a DC-DC and wishing you'd just bought one from the start?