Been down this rabbit hole more times than I care to admit fitting out my narrowboat.
The frustration is real. You buy something that looks the part on Amazon, it arrives with Anderson connectors that have the springiness of wet cardboard, and six months later you're wondering why your shore power connection is running warm.
What worked for me in the end was buying the components separately and making my own. Picked up genuine SB50 Andersons from Batt Man (not the cheap grey-shell knockoffs — the proper red 50A ones), then sourced a decent 13A plug and some 6mm² flex. Bit of heat shrink, a couple of hours in the engine bay, and I've had zero issues through two winters now.
The key thing nobody mentions is contact quality inside the Anderson housing. The cheap units use stamped contacts rather than the proper machined ones — you can actually feel the difference when you push the cable contact in. Genuine ones click home satisfyingly. Clones just... wobble about.
If you genuinely can't face making your own, Victron sell a shore power lead that uses proper connectors, though it's not exactly a 13A adapter in the traditional sense — more suited if you're already running a Victron setup on the boat.
Has anyone tried the Fogstar ecosystem for anything like this? I know they're mainly cells and BMS stuff but curious if they've branched out.
Would be interested to know what amperage people are actually pulling through these adapters too — that probably changes the answer significantly.