Been through exactly this with my place. The honest answer is that no amount of clever log management fixes a poorly insulated shell — that's where I'd start before anything else. Rockwool between the studs and rigid foam on the inside face made a genuinely shocking difference before I even touched the stove setup.
That said, once the envelope was sorted I switched to a Morso Squirrel (the 1410) and it's transformed how I use wood. Smaller, well-seasoned hardwood burns far more efficiently than chucking on big rounds and throttling it back — a lot of people run their stoves too cool which just glazes the glass and wastes fuel.
A few things that actually moved the needle for me:
- Thermal mass near the stove (a couple of slate tiles on the floor) releases heat after you let it die down overnight
- Door draught excluders — embarrassingly cheap fix that made a real difference
- Moisture meter on every log — anything above 20% goes back in the stack
On the electrical side I've got a small Victron setup running a 12V heated mattress pad which bridges the gap between the stove dying at midnight and me getting up at 6. Pulls very little from the LiFePO4 bank but makes mornings survivable.
What's your current insulation situation and what stove are you running? Hard to give specific advice without knowing the starting point. Also worth knowing — are you trying to heat it 24/7 or just during occupied periods? That changes the whole strategy considerably.