Narrowboat life taught me this lesson the hard way — short runs are basically useless for charging anything meaningful, especially when the alternator's spending half its time just warming up its own ego.
Swapped over to a DC-DC charger (Victron Orion-Tr Smart, naturally) and it genuinely transformed things. Instead of your battery getting whatever scraps the alternator feels like chucking at it, you get a proper controlled charge — even on a 20-minute pootle to Lidl and back. The difference in winter especially is night and day because it's not fighting voltage drop and temperature at the same time.
The other option folks don't talk about enough is just accepting defeat gracefully — chuck a small solar panel on the roof (even 100W Renogy job does something in December, bless it) and let it trickle away while you're parked up staring at a grey sky wondering why you own a motorhome.
If you're still on a bog-standard lead-acid leisure battery, that's your other problem right there. Lithium from Fogstar holds charge so much better over winter — no weird voltage sag making your charger think it's already full when it absolutely isn't.
Genuinely curious — what split charge relay setup are people running? Still seeing folks on ancient VSR systems wondering why nothing works. 😅