Ah, the classic "let's just bung them together" approach — works until it spectacularly doesn't. Been there, nearly burned the shed down.
The actual dos:
Match your batteries properly. Same chemistry, voltage, capacity, and ideally the same age. Mixing a 10-year-old lead-acid with a shiny new one? That's asking for trouble. The knackered one will drag the good one down and charge unevenly.
Use proper cabling. Both positive and negative terminals, same gauge wire, kept as short and equal length as possible. Unequal lengths = unequal current distribution = one battery works harder and dies faster.
Install a BMS on each battery (or one per parallel string if you're running multiple groups). A Victron Smart BMS or similar means each battery gets monitored properly rather than hoping for the best.
Balance them before connecting. Get them all to the same voltage first. Connecting a fully charged battery to a half-dead one causes massive current spikes that'll make your connectors glow.
The don'ts:
Don't mix different capacities thinking they'll "share the load fairly" — they won't. Don't assume old cabling will do. Don't skip the BMS to save £50 when you're protecting thousands in batteries.
Most importantly: don't parallel different battery types. LiFePO4 and lead-acid in the same system? That's how you end up with an expensive heap of scrap.
Done it right for three years now without incident. Worth getting it proper from the start.