I've been through this exact decision myself when I set up my narrowboat system, though I went smaller initially at 3kW. The jump to 5kW is interesting because it's where you start needing proper consideration of your incoming AC supply and installation costs.
I ended up with a Victron MultiPlus after months of deliberation. The build quality is genuinely impressive — German engineering that's built to last, which matters when you're off-grid and can't just ring up your sparky for a replacement. The monitoring through VRM is brilliant too; I can check my battery state from anywhere. Yes, it's pricier, but I've had zero issues in three years.
That said, I've got mates running Growatt on their cottage setups and they're getting on fine. Cheaper upfront, decent performance, though the customer support seems a bit more hit-and-miss depending on your installer. The Growatt SPH series seems to be what most people go for in that power range.
Real question though — what's your use case? Are you looking at this as a grid-tie with battery backup, or genuinely off-grid? And what's your battery capacity? A 5kW inverter makes different sense depending on whether you're backing up a 10kWh system or pushing 30kWh.
Also worth checking whether your cottage electrician is familiar with hybrid installations. Makes a difference to installation complexity and cost. Some areas are absolutely rammed with Victron experience, others less so.
What's drawing you toward 5kW specifically?