Spot on what everyone's saying about the van being your testing ground. I spent years thinking I'd need a massive system before I actually lived with the constraints — turned out I was way off on what I'd actually use day-to-day.
What I'd add: document everything while you're in the van. Your actual consumption patterns, seasonal variations, how you actually behave when power's tight (you'll be shocked). I kept a spreadsheet of usage across different seasons and it completely changed what I spec'd for the tiny house.
The other thing — and this matters for your future build — is that van kit doesn't necessarily translate 1:1. The Victron setup that works brilliantly at 100Ah in a compact space might need rethinking at 400Ah in a static setup. But the principles stick with you. You'll understand what oversizing actually means instead of just guessing.
One practical tip: if you're serious about the transition, size your van batteries and solar for what you think the tiny house needs, not what fits the van. Better to have surplus capacity now than realise in two years you've learnt everything