Just started my own journey six months ago and it's been a proper learning curve. Biggest mistake was overthinking it at the start — kept reading specs instead of just getting something up and running.
Here's what I'd say matters most:
Start with your actual usage. Sounds obvious but I see loads of people guessing. Stick a monitor on your main consumer for a month. What are your peak loads? When do you actually need power? I realised half my planned battery capacity was overkill because I don't need everything running simultaneously.
Budget for batteries first, panels second. Everyone gets this backwards. Panels are cheap; good batteries aren't. I went LiFePO4 (Fogstar) and it's transformed reliability. Worth stretching the budget here.
Don't go full off-grid immediately if you're unsure. My setup's a hybrid — still connected but drawing maybe 20% from the grid now. Takes pressure off whilst you learn how your system actually behaves through seasons.
Location really matters. I'm south-facing with decent spacing — makes a genuine difference to winter performance. Worth surveying shadowing properly before you commit.
The community here's been brilliant for specific questions. Everyone's setup is different though, so expect some contradictory advice. Just test what works for your situation.
What's driving your interest? New build, retrofit, or looking to reduce grid dependency? That changes the approach quite a bit.