Had a similar headache with VRM a while back — not quite the same situation but related enough to share.
I'd set up monitoring on my cabin's Victron kit (MultiPlus-II and a Cerbo GX) and everything was working brilliantly for months. Then I tried logging in from a different device and it just... stopped sending reset emails. Checked spam, checked my email provider's filtering settings, nothing. Eventually figured out it was tied to a secondary email I'd added to the account at some point — seemed to confuse things somehow.
A few things that helped or were suggested to me:
- Check whether VRM is sending to the primary address or the one you added later — it isn't always obvious which it defaults to
- Try a completely different email provider temporarily (Gmail vs. whatever you're currently using) — some providers silently block Victron's domain
- Clear browser cache and try an incognito window before requesting another reset link
- Contact Victron's support directly via their portal rather than relying on the community forum — they were actually quite responsive when I did this
The frustrating bit is that without VRM access you lose all the remote monitoring that makes the system so useful, especially for a cabin setup where you're not always on site.
Has anyone else noticed this happening more since Victron updated the VRM login system a few months back? Wondering if there was a broader change that's catching people out. Would be good to know if there's a reliable fix rather than just workarounds.