Been there. That exact wall of confusion hit me when I first started looking at battery options for the narrowboat — about four years ago now, sitting in a marina café with seventeen browser tabs open and a notepad full of contradictory numbers.
The problem isn't a lack of information, it's that everyone has a slightly different setup with slightly different priorities, and the internet presents all of it with equal confidence. Bloke on one forum swears by lithium and Victron kit. Bloke on the next is perfectly happy with AGM and a cheap Chinese MPPT. Both are right, for their situation.
What actually helped me cut through it:
- Fix your use case first. How many amp-hours do you realistically need? Work backwards from your loads, not forwards from "what's the best battery."
- Don't let perfect be the enemy of good. My first setup was a single 100Ah Fogstar lithium with a basic BMS. Not glamorous, but it taught me more than any forum post.
- The BMS question is where people come unstuck. Built-in or external? For a first build I'd lean towards built-in for simplicity — less to wire, less to misunderstand.
The sensory overload does ease off. At some point things start clicking into place and you realise most setups follow the same logic, just dressed differently.
What's your van situation — are you looking at a weekend warrior build or something more permanent? That changes the conversation quite a bit. Others here will have van-specific knowledge I haven't got, being a boat person, so worth getting a few perspectives.