Bit of an odd one to weigh in on from across the pond, but worth flagging — are you set on Houston specifically, or would you consider ordering online and having it shipped? Reason I ask is that a lot of DIY LiFePO4 builders here in the UK end up going direct from Chinese manufacturers (EVE, CATL cells etc.) through suppliers like Fogstar or even AliExpress for the raw cells, then sourcing a decent BMS separately.
16kWh is a chunky build — are you thinking a single bank or splitting it across multiple 48V batteries? That decision massively affects which BMS route makes sense. Something like a Daly or JK BMS is popular for DIY at that scale, though for anything serious I'd lean toward a proper active balancer in the mix too.
For a US audience, I know folks rate Signature Solar and Dragonfly Energy for kits — worth a search if you haven't already?
The other question worth asking yourself — what's your inverter situation? If you're running Victron kit (which honestly, why wouldn't you 😄), you'll want cells and a BMS that plays nicely with DVCC. Makes life so much easier.
What's the application — static off-grid, motorhome/RV, or something else? That'd help narrow things down considerably. Others on here with US experience might be able to point you somewhere local too!