Been looking into this myself for my garden office setup. Got two 12V lithiums running in parallel and was initially worried about keeping them balanced, especially since my solar input's a bit inconsistent with the UK weather.
The Victron balancer's solid kit, but I reckon the real issue is whether your charge controller's pushing equal voltage to both batteries. If they're genuinely in parallel, a decent MPPT should handle it, but older PWM controllers can sometimes favour one battery over the other depending on cable routing and resistance.
What I did was upgrade to a Victron SmartSolar — the monitoring side alone is worth it. You can actually see what each battery's pulling. Caught a dodgy connection on one of my terminals that was causing a 0.3V differential. Sorted once I cleaned it up properly.
The balancer works best as a safety net rather than a primary solution though. It'll top up the weaker one, but if you're running them hard (high discharge), they'll still drift unless your charging's bang on.
Few questions for you:
- Are they sealed, AGM, or lithium?
- What's the solar controller model?
- How far apart are the batteries physically?
Cable runs and resistance matter more than people think. Even 2-3 metres of thin cable can cause issues. I've seen folk recommend keeping them as close as possible, which isn't always practical with a caravan layout.
Would be curious what others are doing with dual battery setups. Seems like there's quite a few of us running this config.