Not on a narrowboat myself — static caravan setup — but I went through a similar decision process when I upgraded my charging sources last year, so hopefully some of this is useful.
The short answer is almost always yes, go bigger, but with caveats.
A larger alternator is only worth it if the rest of your system can handle the input. If you're running a decent bank of lithium (Fogstar Drift cells are popular right now), a bigger alternator makes a real difference because lithium will happily gulp down whatever you throw at it during the bulk phase. Lead-acid is a different story — too aggressive and you're cooking the batteries.
The other thing people miss is protection. A bigger alternator pushes more heat and current, so if you haven't got a proper DC-DC charger like a Victron Orion-Tr Smart sitting between the alternator and your house bank, you're potentially hammering both the alternator and the batteries. Narrowboats especially seem to run everything through a basic split charge relay and then wonder why things fail.
What did you go from and to, size-wise? And what's your battery bank — lithium or lead? That changes the advice quite a bit.
Also curious whether you're seeing much difference in charge times at cruising RPM vs. idle. That's usually where the real-world gains show up.