Been dealing with exactly this on my narrowboat — the Multiplus 2000VA would drop out every time the spin cycle hit full speed. Nightmare when you're moored up and mid-wash.
After a lot of head-scratching, I found a few things worth checking:
Transfer switch delay — if you're running on shore power some of the time, there can be a brief dropout during load spikes. Worth checking your AC input current limit settings in VictronConnect.
PowerAssist settings — this was my actual culprit. The washing machine motor draws a massive inrush current during spin. If PowerAssist isn't configured properly it can't supplement fast enough and the unit trips on overload.
Battery state — what's your bank like? If the cells are tired or your BMS is cutting out momentarily under load, the Multiplus takes the blame but the battery's the real problem. I'm running Fogstar Drift 200Ah cells now and it's night and day compared to my old AGMs.
Also worth checking whether you've got the overload trip delay set too aggressively in the ESS or standalone settings. Sometimes tightening that up causes nuisance tripping on legitimate but spiky loads.
What Multiplus model are you running — 12V or 24V system? And is it a standalone install or part of a wider Victron setup with a Cerbo? Makes a difference to where the fault might be hiding.
Has anyone else found specific washing machine brands worse than others for this? I've heard front-loaders with brushless motors are generally kinder on inverters but curious what others have experienced.