After 15 years of grid living followed by a decade off-grid in my motorhome conversion, I'd say it means different things to different people, and that's perfectly valid.
For me, it's about energy independence — generating what I use rather than paying the utility companies. My setup's modest: 400W of Renogy panels, a Victron MPPT controller, and sufficient lithium storage to handle a few cloudy days. Works brilliantly for my needs.
But genuine off-grid living is a spectrum. Some folks run entirely on renewables with zero grid connection. Others maintain a backup supply for emergencies — still off-grid in principle but with a safety net. Then there's the "off-grid mentality" crowd who simply want to reduce dependence and environmental impact without fully disconnecting.
The critical bit is understanding your consumption patterns and being honest about what you're prepared to sacrifice. Endless hot showers and electric heating? That requires serious infrastructure. A modest lifestyle with careful power management? Far more achievable.
I think the misconception is that off-grid = primitive. It doesn't. Proper planning and decent equipment (Victron gear is worth every penny) means comfortable living without grid reliance. You just need to be intentional about energy use.
What's driving your interest in going off-grid? The motivation shapes whether it's realistic for your situation. Running a motorhome full-time is vastly different from trying to power a family home with the same investment.
Would be interested to hear what others consider the essentials versus nice-to-haves when they're planning their setups.