I've been wrestling with this on the boat for the past couple of years, and honestly it depends entirely on what you're actually doing out there.
When I first set up, I thought 400W would be loads. Turned out I was naive — that sounds great on paper until you've got the fridge running, a laptop charging, and some decent lighting all at once, especially in winter when you're lucky to get 3-4 hours of decent solar per day.
The real game-changer for me was being honest about consumption. I spent a week just logging what actually pulled power. The fridge murdered me — a decent 12V compressor model is essential, but it'll drain you. Then there's the psychological stuff: people always want more than they think they need, and that's fair enough.
My current setup (600W Renogy, Victron MPPT, 300Ah LiFePO₄) keeps me comfortable without needing to hunt for hookups, but I'm also disciplined about it. No kettles, no hairdryers, and the heating comes from diesel.
I reckon the minimum for genuine wild camping is probably 300-400W paired with decent battery storage and a realistic idea of what you're plugging in. Add another 200W if you want to run a small fridge without stress. And honestly, accept that winter is grim — even then, I'll have a backup generator stashed for the really grey weeks.
What's your actual must-haves list? That'll tell you more than any generic wattage figure.